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    Question We as christians need to talk Sex

    Do you thing there are no limitations in the bedroom of a married christian couple? For example is oral, anal or porn acceptable. Please keep it clean.

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    Yea, actually I do think here should be some limitations.Just my personal opinion. But I feel that it's ultimately up to the couple if certain things work for them.
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    Paraphrased Bible-ness.... from memory

    I say this as a none married Christian. There are some limits to what you should do (IMO) but it does also say in the Bible that a woman should not keep her body from her husband, and a man should not keep his own body from his wife.

    So oral I'm guessing is fine, Anal Im guessing is fine (wrong in my opinion... nothing should go in that passage My own opinon!) because these are part of your body that you shouldn't keep from your spouse.

    Now porn... that is not you nor is it your spouse... (well unless you make your own)
    Watching porn may cause you to want to "stray" from your husband/wife
    It does say in the Bible that if your hand causes you to sin you should cut it off, to prevent you from doing more sin/ prevent you from becoming eternally damned. It also say if your eye causes you to sin... GOUGE it out for the same reasons.

    I?n my opinion porn is a temptation... are those in the porn married? So in buying you are promoting fornication, both through your actions and with your money/ time.

    But then again... I am young in age and spiritual growth.... and I have not met my husband yet

    (but I am believing in God to present him when I am educationally, spiritually and financially mature enough!)
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    What I have to agree with Dividir is on the porn aspect. I too feel that that crosses limits. You are watching other people sexually (other than your spouse) engage in sexual relations;which like Dividir said causes temptations and the like. I personally wouldnt start the habit of engaging in this debauchery with my spouse as it opens the door to other things. JMO.
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    You guys got to read this book. 60 Things God saids about Sex. I think that the library has it.

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    There are limitations. Oral sex is a no, no and Anal sex is a lewd and Lacivious Act. I love it when my young sister hold discussions. Debauchery is drinking and immoral sexual activities. That is also not good. When a couple introduces Porn it is like opening the door for problems. These are the problems that you incur: your children finding porn and porn addiction. Your arousement is from what you see not your partner it is lust. Think of the thoughts that come with what you are seeing when watching porn. It has nothing do to with your partner. I am going to post some information later. I want to wait for more conversation on this topic. As christians there are standards. I later learned this in my marriage.

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    A sample of the book 60 things God said about sex
    it looks interesting
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    Oh and I just found this website

    Anal Sex According to the Word of God

    Interesting, has interesting arguments not all to which I agree, but then it seems to back it up with the Bible.... When I have time Im going to have to read through take notes and make up my own mind
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    Thanks Dividir, I may purchase this book, I think it'll come in handy too when my babies become teenagers. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
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    You both are so funny. I read that site. How scary. Anal sex (rimming) is unclean. Think for one moment it is where we defecate. Do we have any nurses in the house? The rectum/anus is not designed for this. The rectum is a fine mucus membrane that can easily tear, due to bacteria from feces an Abscess can occur. Unlike the vagina muscles, muscles from the anus will not contract to its original state. After continuous Anal sex the anus muscles become damaged, because the muscles do not contract bowel ooze resulting into diaper or pad usage. This results in uncontrollable bowels. If this type of sexual act were acceptable, why would God allow this type of damage to happen to the body? Do your research.

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