I am new on this site and I am having trouble with caring for my relaxed hair. I was natural but, one summer it was just too damn hot for me to take care of it. At the time it was BSL but now it's NL below my ears. Im trying to figure out a hair regime but it's been pretty difficult. My hair is very brittle and dry. I use tresemme smooth and silky conditioner which seems to work well. I really just want to get it back healthy and growing. I also want to know how often to get my ends clipped. I wrap...